feat(marketplace): trust-weight trade reputation + in-thread trade confirmation

- Reputation now exposes per-counterparty verified counts; the profile card
  trust-weights each confirmed trade by the counterparty's web-of-trust score
  (fresh-account rings can't inflate it) and labels Highly trusted / Building /
  New trader
- usePendingTradeConfirmations finds sales a seller recorded that name you but
  you haven't mirrored; the 1:1 DM thread shows a 'Did you complete this trade?'
  banner with one-tap Confirm

src/components/TradeReputationCard.tsx

@@ -1,5 +1,6 @@
 import { Card, CardContent, CardHeader, CardTitle } from '@/components/ui/card';
 import { useTradeReputation } from '@/hooks/useTradeAttestations';
+import { useBatchTrustScores } from '@/hooks/useBatchTrustScores';
 import { cn } from '@/lib/utils';
 import { Handshake } from 'lucide-react';
 
@@ -21,10 +22,21 @@ function Stat({ label, value, accent }: { label: string; value: number; accent?:
  */
 export function TradeReputationCard({ pubkey, className }: { pubkey: string; className?: string }) {
   const { data } = useTradeReputation(pubkey);
-  const total = (data?.sales ?? 0) + (data?.purchases ?? 0);
+  const verifiedWith = data?.verifiedWith ?? [];
+  // Trust-weight each mutually-confirmed trade by the counterparty's web-of-trust
+  // score, so a ring of fresh accounts can't inflate reputation.
+  const { data: scores } = useBatchTrustScores(verifiedWith.map((v) => v.pubkey));
 
+  const total = (data?.sales ?? 0) + (data?.purchases ?? 0);
   if (!data || total === 0) return null;
 
+  const weighted = verifiedWith.reduce(
+    (sum, v) => sum + v.count * ((scores?.get(v.pubkey) ?? 0) / 100),
+    0,
+  );
+  const trustLabel =
+    weighted >= 5 ? 'Highly trusted trader' : weighted >= 1 ? 'Building reputation' : 'New trader';
+
   return (
     <Card className={cn('bg-black/90 border-2 border-[#ff6600]/25', className)}>
       <CardHeader className="pb-3">
@@ -46,6 +58,13 @@ export function TradeReputationCard({ pubkey, className }: { pubkey: string; cla
           {data.counterparties.length > 0 &&
             ` · ${data.counterparties.length} counterpart${data.counterparties.length === 1 ? 'y' : 'ies'}`}
         </p>
+        {data.verified > 0 && (
+          <p className="text-xs text-gray-500">
+            Trust-weighted <span className="font-bold text-[#ccff00]">{weighted.toFixed(1)}</span>
+            {' · '}
+            {trustLabel}
+          </p>
+        )}
       </CardContent>
     </Card>
   );

src/hooks/useTradeAttestations.ts

@@ -121,6 +121,8 @@ export interface TradeReputation {
   purchases: number;
   /** Deals where both sides attested the same listing. */
   verified: number;
+  /** Per-counterparty count of mutually-confirmed trades (for WoT weighting). */
+  verifiedWith: { pubkey: string; count: number }[];
   /** Distinct counterparties involved. */
   counterparties: string[];
   /** Raw trade attestations this pubkey is involved in. */
@@ -143,7 +145,7 @@ export function useTradeReputation(pubkey: string | undefined) {
     enabled: !!pubkey,
     staleTime: 5 * 60 * 1000,
     queryFn: async (c): Promise<TradeReputation> => {
-      const empty: TradeReputation = { sales: 0, purchases: 0, verified: 0, counterparties: [], attestations: [] };
+      const empty: TradeReputation = { sales: 0, purchases: 0, verified: 0, verifiedWith: [], counterparties: [], attestations: [] };
       if (!pubkey) return empty;
 
       const signal = AbortSignal.any([c.signal, AbortSignal.timeout(12000)]);
@@ -171,6 +173,7 @@ export function useTradeReputation(pubkey: string | undefined) {
       }
 
       const counterparties = new Set<string>();
+      const verifiedWith = new Map<string, number>();
       let sales = 0;
       let purchases = 0;
       let verified = 0;
@@ -186,7 +189,13 @@ export function useTradeReputation(pubkey: string | undefined) {
         if (involved) {
           if (pubkey === seller) sales++;
           else purchases++;
-          if (isVerified) verified++;
+          if (isVerified) {
+            verified++;
+            // Attribute the verified trade to the other attestor(s).
+            for (const a of attestors) {
+              if (a !== pubkey) verifiedWith.set(a, (verifiedWith.get(a) ?? 0) + 1);
+            }
+          }
 
           // Record counterparties (everyone else who attested this listing).
           for (const a of attestors) if (a !== pubkey) counterparties.add(a);
@@ -202,6 +211,7 @@ export function useTradeReputation(pubkey: string | undefined) {
         sales,
         purchases,
         verified,
+        verifiedWith: [...verifiedWith.entries()].map(([pubkey, count]) => ({ pubkey, count })),
         counterparties: [...counterparties],
         attestations: unique,
       };
@@ -209,6 +219,52 @@ export function useTradeReputation(pubkey: string | undefined) {
   });
 }
 
+/**
+ * Trades where someone named the viewer as counterparty and the viewer has NOT
+ * yet published their own attestation — used to prompt "confirm this trade".
+ */
+export function usePendingTradeConfirmations(viewerPubkey: string | undefined) {
+  const { nostr } = useNostr();
+
+  return useQuery({
+    queryKey: ['pending-trade-confirmations', viewerPubkey],
+    enabled: !!viewerPubkey,
+    staleTime: 60 * 1000,
+    queryFn: async (c) => {
+      type Pending = { coord: string; listing: { pubkey: string; identifier: string }; seller: string };
+      if (!viewerPubkey) return [] as Pending[];
+
+      const signal = AbortSignal.any([c.signal, AbortSignal.timeout(10000)]);
+      const [naming, mine] = await Promise.all([
+        nostr.query([{ kinds: [TRADE_ATTESTATION_KIND], '#p': [viewerPubkey], limit: 200 }], { signal }),
+        nostr.query([{ kinds: [TRADE_ATTESTATION_KIND], authors: [viewerPubkey], limit: 200 }], { signal }),
+      ]);
+
+      const myCoords = new Set(
+        mine.filter(isTradeAttestation).map((e) => e.tags.find(([t]) => t === 'a')?.[1]).filter(Boolean),
+      );
+
+      const pending: Pending[] = [];
+      const seen = new Set<string>();
+      for (const ev of naming.filter(isTradeAttestation)) {
+        if (ev.pubkey === viewerPubkey) continue;
+        const coord = ev.tags.find(([t]) => t === 'a')?.[1];
+        const parsed = parseListingCoord(coord);
+        // The attestor must be the listing author (i.e. the seller's record).
+        if (!coord || !parsed || parsed.pubkey !== ev.pubkey) continue;
+        if (myCoords.has(coord) || seen.has(coord)) continue;
+        seen.add(coord);
+        pending.push({
+          coord,
+          listing: { pubkey: parsed.pubkey, identifier: parsed.identifier },
+          seller: ev.pubkey,
+        });
+      }
+      return pending;
+    },
+  });
+}
+
 /**
  * Trade attestations for one listing, from the viewer's perspective:
  * `iConfirmed` (they attested it) and `counterparty` (who else has).

src/pages/ConversationPage.tsx

@@ -14,6 +14,7 @@ import { useToast } from '@/hooks/useToast';
 import { useNostrLogin } from '@nostrify/react/login';
 import { hasNip44 as checkNip44 } from '@/lib/signerCapabilities';
 import { useConversation, useSendDirectMessage, type DirectMessage } from '@/hooks/useDirectMessages';
+import { usePendingTradeConfirmations, useTradeAttestation } from '@/hooks/useTradeAttestations';
 import { useDMRead } from '@/hooks/useDMRead';
 import { useAuthor } from '@/hooks/useAuthor';
 import { genUserName } from '@/lib/genUserName';
@@ -25,6 +26,7 @@ import {
   Loader2,
   AlertCircle,
   RefreshCw,
+  CheckCircle2,
 } from 'lucide-react';
 import { cn } from '@/lib/utils';
 import { AmberApprovalHint } from '@/components/AmberApprovalHint';
@@ -102,6 +104,8 @@ export default function ConversationPage() {
 
   const { data: messages, isLoading, error, refetch, isRefetching } = useConversation(otherPubkey || '');
   const { mutate: sendMessage, isPending: isSending } = useSendDirectMessage();
+  const { data: pendingTrades } = usePendingTradeConfirmations(user?.pubkey);
+  const { publishTrade, isPending: confirmingTrade } = useTradeAttestation();
   const { markRead } = useDMRead();
   const author = useAuthor(otherPubkey || undefined);
   const metadata = author.data?.metadata;
@@ -148,8 +152,26 @@ export default function ConversationPage() {
     );
   };
 
-  const handleKeyDown = (e: React.KeyboardEvent) => {
-    if (e.key === 'Enter' && !e.shiftKey) {
+  // A pending trade the other party recorded but we haven't confirmed yet.
+  const pendingTrade = otherPubkey
+    ? pendingTrades?.find((t) => t.seller === otherPubkey)
+    : undefined;
+
+  const handleConfirmTrade = async () => {
+    if (!pendingTrade || !otherPubkey) return;
+    try {
+      await publishTrade({ listing: pendingTrade.listing, role: 'bought', counterparty: otherPubkey });
+      toast({ title: 'Trade confirmed', description: 'Reputation updated for both of you.' });
+    } catch (e) {
+      toast({
+        title: 'Could not confirm the trade',
+        description: e instanceof Error ? e.message : 'Something went wrong.',
+        variant: 'destructive',
+      });
+    }
+  };
+
+  const handleKeyDown = (e: React.KeyboardEvent) => {    if (e.key === 'Enter' && !e.shiftKey) {
       e.preventDefault();
       handleSend();
     }
@@ -246,6 +268,30 @@ export default function ConversationPage() {
           </Button>
         </div>
 
+        {/* Pending trade confirmation (the seller recorded the sale) */}
+        {pendingTrade && (
+          <Card className="mb-3 flex-shrink-0 border-2 border-[#ccff00]/40 bg-[#ccff00]/5">
+            <CardContent className="flex items-center gap-3 p-3">
+              <CheckCircle2 className="h-5 w-5 shrink-0 text-[#ccff00]" />
+              <div className="min-w-0 flex-1">
+                <p className="text-sm font-bold text-white">Did you complete this trade?</p>
+                <p className="text-xs text-gray-400">
+                  {displayName} recorded the sale. Confirm to update reputation for both of you.
+                </p>
+              </div>
+              <Button
+                size="sm"
+                onClick={handleConfirmTrade}
+                disabled={confirmingTrade}
+                className="shrink-0 gap-1.5 bg-[#ccff00] font-bold text-black hover:bg-[#ccff00]/90"
+              >
+                {confirmingTrade ? <Loader2 className="h-3.5 w-3.5 animate-spin" /> : <CheckCircle2 className="h-3.5 w-3.5" />}
+                Confirm
+              </Button>
+            </CardContent>
+          </Card>
+        )}
+
         {/* Messages Area */}
         <div
           className="flex-1 overflow-y-auto py-3 sm:py-4 space-y-2 sm:space-y-3 min-h-0"